Cary P. Clayton, 71, of Neptune, died Friday August 8, 2014 at JerseyShore University Medical Center, Neptune. He was a Probation Officer for Monmouth County before retiring. Mr. Clayton was a veteran ofthe US Army, a member of the American Legion and he received his Bachelor of Arts Degree from James Madison University. Surviving are his sons, David and his wife Julie of Robbinsville and Cary P. andhis wife Kimberly of Hamilton, his life partner, Pamela Murphy ofLake Como, his sister Judy Dusche of Tennessee and his 5grandchildren, Max, Emily, Winston, Konrad and Lennox. Relatives and friends may call on Friday August 22 from 11:00 AM with funera lservices beginning at 12:00 noon at the Ocean Grove Memorial Home,118 Main Avenue, Ocean Grove, with burial following at Atlantic ViewCemetery, Manasquan. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the FoodBank of Monmouth and Ocean Counties 3300 Route 66, Neptune, NJ 07753would be appreciated.